Driving licence II & and some stuff about emo.
I am sitting here and thinking about the state I was in after passing the driving licence test. What was it?
Most people seeing me would say: "Happiness".
How did it feel inside?
Well, the moment of getting the good news became much slower, as if time decelerated. What happened than was a lot of jumping and "YESSSSS!"es, but what was going on inside was quite different. I felt kind of calm. This feeling of everything being just right, of the world hugging me softly, of the cristal clear air and accentuated (dictionary), beutiful nature. The world suddenly did not seem like such a cruel, dangerous place. Somehow, you were a part of a net-work that every creature, every blade of grass is connected to. I knew how horrible the world is, but at the time I did not believe it.
In conclusion: What does this remind you? I only remember x (personal) times when it happened to me. And it had a stong conection to the opposite sex. can this be love than?
I claim that yes. This and lust. When you mix the two of them you get someting that makes you come up with the sentence: "I fell in love."
Because how do you know really? When can YOU tell you "fell in love"? People fighting for their love often say: "Don't you understand? He makes me feel happy!". So there you have it. You MUST be happy to feel love (at least at the beginning). And than the second thing comes in. "I met a guy and he is SOOO hot!"- this of course isn't love yet, but just lust, which can be often confused with "amore" since excitement makes you special, which in turn makes you happy, but it is not quite.. oh, I'm confused.
So, anyway, the point is that if you feel happy with someone and you desire him -you simply love him. (I am talking about real happiness here.)
I have found the definition of love:
HAPPINESS + LUST = LOVE
So, though lust is often mistaken for love and happiness forces you to in the end fancy a person you never really liked in the first place, I still think I mmight be right.
The Real, fairy-tail, Elizabeth Bennet & Mr. Darcy, Tristan & Isolda, Harry and Sally, Lucy Kelson & George Wade ("Two week's notice"), Patrycja & Baltona kind of love is just that... happiness combined with lust. Shifting over to one or the other side.
The first one only in a small part depending on the second, though.
So this is what I came up with so far.
But does it make any sens???
//kasia
Most people seeing me would say: "Happiness".
How did it feel inside?
Well, the moment of getting the good news became much slower, as if time decelerated. What happened than was a lot of jumping and "YESSSSS!"es, but what was going on inside was quite different. I felt kind of calm. This feeling of everything being just right, of the world hugging me softly, of the cristal clear air and accentuated (dictionary), beutiful nature. The world suddenly did not seem like such a cruel, dangerous place. Somehow, you were a part of a net-work that every creature, every blade of grass is connected to. I knew how horrible the world is, but at the time I did not believe it.
In conclusion: What does this remind you? I only remember x (personal) times when it happened to me. And it had a stong conection to the opposite sex. can this be love than?
I claim that yes. This and lust. When you mix the two of them you get someting that makes you come up with the sentence: "I fell in love."
Because how do you know really? When can YOU tell you "fell in love"? People fighting for their love often say: "Don't you understand? He makes me feel happy!". So there you have it. You MUST be happy to feel love (at least at the beginning). And than the second thing comes in. "I met a guy and he is SOOO hot!"- this of course isn't love yet, but just lust, which can be often confused with "amore" since excitement makes you special, which in turn makes you happy, but it is not quite.. oh, I'm confused.
So, anyway, the point is that if you feel happy with someone and you desire him -you simply love him. (I am talking about real happiness here.)
I have found the definition of love:
HAPPINESS + LUST = LOVE
So, though lust is often mistaken for love and happiness forces you to in the end fancy a person you never really liked in the first place, I still think I mmight be right.
The Real, fairy-tail, Elizabeth Bennet & Mr. Darcy, Tristan & Isolda, Harry and Sally, Lucy Kelson & George Wade ("Two week's notice"), Patrycja & Baltona kind of love is just that... happiness combined with lust. Shifting over to one or the other side.
The first one only in a small part depending on the second, though.
So this is what I came up with so far.
But does it make any sens???
//kasia
posted by //k. at
10:14 PM
25 Comments:
it does make sense, tho i think you dont have to be happy/feel happiness to love someone.
also, i sorta think the equation is more like
Love => happiness + lust
:P not universal tho obviously.. but point is, i dont think those two things are love, but that theyre symptoms of love, if that makes sense..
(and as you say, at least in the beginning.. :))
oh and also, those are films, its all fiction..
-theres no love in hollywood.. :P
and congrats again on license! :D
You always contradict me jo. I wonder when will YOU write something deep like that, so I can comment on YOUR thinking... ):-)
Films are the mirrors of life. Everything in them is born in a human mind, where also YOUr love towards someone comes from. Some people just want to show what they believe in in a slightly different way called "film".
:P
Talking about love stories, not films in general.
im not contradicting you, im just saying what i think, which this time i think is not very far from your thinking.. :P
and about films, yeah theyre born in the human mind, but my point is that that doesnt mean its realistic, theyre the ideal picture of love, and that doesnt really happen.
that perfection doesnt exist, in reality there are rough times, and youve gotta work on it, but ppl see these films and think if its love it should be easy, so they think it isnt, and so they look for sthn else, or decide that love doesnt exist.
least thats my theory, and again, not universal.. :P
(and hollywood films arent mainly an expression of thoughts, but a way to make money, imho)
Jo, love can be beautiful and just as magical as it is in the movies, it does not happen often, but it does. And if not love is a magical thing than maybe 4 you it is just "having to work it out" with a person you want to copulate with?
saraaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!
you have a blog! (theoretcally, cuz until you write soemthing in it I cannor neither read or comment it..:( ) You have to keep me posted and write a lot so i can feel updated.
do you have your school plans already? how many cute guys have you flirted with?
:P
ok, i find that very offending, and you dont even seem to try and understand what i mean.
and what exactly do you base that statement on?
jo, I am being sarcastic don't take it the hard way. Do you still remember what: "messing" means? That is what I am doing. The reason why you might get offended is maybe because I think that you are a differnet person here, on internet, than the person I used to hand out with. To be telling the truth, the neew person annoys me a bit by always having to explain what she thinks different and show how "special she is".. jo, honey, you don't have to do that with me, I already love you the way you are, and, trust, me no cool people will ever read this page.
siriana, girl, i suspect you are oriana, but how can I know if you both write under that name? Darling, I have not started my year yet, I will this saturday (that is in 3 days). No cute guys, but a whole lot meetings, shopping for hosehold accesories and food. A bit tired, but ate leat my hair looks cute... ;P
well sorry but i cant see how im sposed to know thats sarcastic..
i dont get you. im not sposed to explain what i think? you posted an opinion/theory about something, and i responded, i dont see what you get annoyed at in that, and i dont see how im different in that way from irl.
Jo. Maybe this time, I am right?
dude, i dont even know what youre talking about! if youre annoyed at my internet personality, i dont think it compares..
So mabe you should think about it!!
Instead of assuming right away that I must be wrong, that what I am saying is riddiculus...hm?!
argh,why dont you try thinking about it for once! im so sick of you ridiculing me for nothing, and now youre annoyed at me for something you cant even say, when its you who's saying horrible things about me?
I can say it and I did. It is not "nothing", as you call it. Why would I ridicule you, if you are my friend and we got along so well before I left? Where would be the point of that? I am your friend. I noticed something and I am letting you know, cuz maybe you could think about it and possibly improve the situation. Thinking back, maybe, your right I did put it in too harsh words (I just see it "yet again!" - I lost controle a bit. I am sorry for that, but please josefine, think about what I am telling you. It is not to offend you, it is to make our communication easier.
love,
kasia
well, i cant decipher it, so itd be swell if you could say it again..
we dont seem to work well over the internet. we always misunderstand each other, and fight all the time. so i spose maybe both of us oughtta be more careful?
I agree. Good idea. Let's be more considerate.
P.s. What I claimed before was: "always having to explain what you think different and show how "special you are".. " was annoying me.
ok well, since this is a blog, and you made a post expressing an opinion, its kinda what you do to comment and say what you think.. also, i dont see how thats any different from how i am irl, liking to discuss things.. :/
how do you think im "trying to be special"? cause that i dont get.
It is the way you express yourself. You're always trying to find something new. I feel you always try to disagree instead of maybe just adding to what I alrady said. Clearer said: "You are right, but, but, but.." You'r pointing out wher I amnot right and commenting so I am getting annoyed at you constantly critisizing what I write. Critics is good. BUt not all the time at all time. Tou know?
i dont see that as a bad thing honestly, so cant say ill "improve".. its boring if everyone agrees! i basically always argue against what everyone says just to get an interesting discussion going, so i mean, you shouldnt take offense, im not critizicing you..
I am tired of discussing, why can't we just talk?
Why does it alays have to be a battle 4 you jo?
you say that, but to me it seems you keep starting them.. and im not battling now, im just explaining, youre the one doing the critizicing..
I do it in defense. I feel attacked by your: "eplaining waht you think". (I am however aware of attacking you)
nice, i just added up many some other new emo backgrounds to my blog
http://www.emo-backgrounds.info
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